Ralph C. Parker Jr.             Surrounded by his family, Ralph C. Parker Jr, 63 of Westbrook lost his battle with a long time illness on April 20, 2017.  Ralph was born February 12, 1954 to Ralph C. Parker Sr. and Dorothy Harmon Parker of Windham.  He grew up in a large family of three brothers and four sisters.  Ralph worked as a carpenter in construction for many years with various companies.  He enjoyed what he did but enjoyed more his love of sports and fishing.  Playing ball with his family as he grew up was very special to him as well as the opportunity to be with his family always and extended family that he grew to love at his residence in Westbrook.  Those who knew Ralph knew his as a caring individual who would sacrifice to help anyone around him.  He was a jokester, always able to put a smile on anyone's face and in so doing endeared himself to many.              Ralph is pre-deceased by his parents, Ralph and Dorothy Parker and his younger brother David J. Parker of Windham.  He is survived by his siblings, Earl Parker and his wife Louise of Windham, Nita Pendexter and her husband Mahlon of Westbrook, Mona York and husband Stephen of Buxton, Robert Parker and wife Laurie of Windham, Sandy Haddock and husband Charlie of Windham, and Susan Roberts and husband Brian of Windham.  He is also survived by nine nieces and 9 nephews and many great –nieces and nephews.  Services will be private.  Online condolences can be expressed at blaisandhayfuneralhome.com