Patrick Matthew Graffam, 44 of Westbrook passed away peacefully, on Thursday, February 21, 2013 at Maine Medical Center. Pat was born in Portland, the son of Curtis and Dona-Vee Bell Graffam. He was raised and attended schools in Westbrook. Pat worked for Pettingill-Ross for many years before beginning his most important and rewarding career - being a full time Dad for Renee. He was a patron of car racing, attended many concerts, followed sports, enjoyed being informed regarding current national and financial arenas, as well as watching movies. Spending time with his family was his highest priority and greatest joy. Pat was a wonderful father, a loving husband, a great son and a true friend. He is survived by his father and stepmother Curtis and Theresa Graffam; his mother and stepfather Donna and Ron Cote of Westbrook; his stepfather Roger Pettingill; his wife Becky (McKeeman) Graffam of Westbrook; his daughter Renee; brothers and sisters, Julie Reynolds, Aaron Graffam, Rick Reynolds, Chris Reynolds, Anne Olleman, Brian Pettingill, Amy Lilly, and Andy Pettingill. Visiting hours will be held on Monday February 25, from 6-8 pm. A funeral service will be held at Parish of St Anthony's of Padua (St. Hyacinth's) on 268 Brown Street, Westbrook at 10:00 am. Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery on Broadway in South Portland. For on-line condolences please visit www.blaisandhayfuneralhome.com. A reception will be held in his honor at the church hall after burial services. Thank you to the Westbrook Police Department, Westbrook Rescue, Maine Medical ER staff, reception areas, Nursing staff, Physicians and Linda from Trauma Intervention Programs for their compassion they showed Pat, his family and friends. Thank you so much to family and friends for all the prayers and support during this difficult time.