Joseph Q. Dahms

Falmouth, ME- Joseph Q. Dahms, 41, passed away Tuesday, January 23, 2024 at Gosnell Memorial Hospice House supported and surrounded in the love of his family and friends. Joe’s final moments were in the arms of his mom at the end of his life’s journey. Joseph Quinn Dahms was born on a football Sunday December 12,1982 to loving parents Kevin and Caroline (Hebert) Dahms. Members of his family include; his beloved daughter Eleanor M. Dahms of North Anson, his brother Alexander Dahms of Jackman; Aunts and Uncles; Larry and Maureen Dahms, Beth Loney, Matthew and Maureen Hebert, Ronda Gagne, Gerry Hebert, Karen Thompson, Cousins; Stephanie who Joey shared a special bond with and her husband Derek, Eric, Chris, Micheal, Meagan, Jessa, Leah, Nathan, Mark, Greg, Kimberly, Kristina, Angela, Jeff. Joe’s girlfriend, Leah Roberts. Joe was predeceased by his Grandparents, Gerald and Patricia Hebert and Patricia Bailey, his Aunt Janis Reynolds and Cousin Ross Thomas. The friendships Joe made in his life are too many to list-know that Joe carried you in his heart and valued each and every one of you. Joey grew up in Gorham, Maine where he made life long friends attending Gorham Schools. He graduated from Gorham High School, Class of 2001. Joey enjoyed playing every season of youth sports, participated in Boy Scouts from Tiger Cubs through Boy Scouts. Joey loved being part of whatever was going on and always making sure everyone was included and were having a good time. Through all these life adventures, he made strong friendships that endured through his lifetime. Joey developed a passion for playing ice hockey for Gorham Middle School, Gorham High School, Casco Bay Youth Hockey and St. Joseph’s College of Maine Club Hockey Teams. Joe graduated from Southern Maine Community College, earning an Associates Degree in Criminal Justice. Joe then went on to earn a Bachelor’s Degree in Criminal Justice from St. Joseph’s College of Maine. Joe’s Criminal Justice Degree led to employment at the Cumberland County Sheriff’s Office as a Corrections Officer. Joe established the All Stars Ice Hockey Team made up of players from the law enforcement community and friends. The All Stars team guided by Joe were participants in fund raising events that included raising money for the library at the Baxter School for the Deaf in Falmouth, Maine. Joe’s career at the Cumberland County Jail was shortened with his cancer diagnosis. As a result, Joe had received unbelievable amounts of love and support at the beginning of his 12 year battle from his co workers, the community, friends and family. The time Joe shared with his daughter Ellie was tempered by Joe’s health. Joe enjoyed Ellie’s visits to hospitals, Ellie riding her bike, watching movies, a push on the swing, seeing the surprises left in the fairy garden, and silly selfies together. Joe’s most recent proud moment was when Ellie surprised him with her Basketball jersey with the number 8. The Dahms tradition continues, as Joe wore the number 8 while playing sports. Some of Joe’s passions included a love for watching hockey, football and WWE Wrestling. Joe enjoyed attending Portland Pirates hockey games and watching the Boston Bruins and New England Patriots. Joe collected sports memorabilia and autographs as he met many professional athletes along the way. Joe attended WWE Wrestlemania Events and music concerts. Above all else, Joe enjoyed spending time with his friends and family. Joe’s incredible medical team from the start of his 12 year battle included; Dr. Devon Evans, Dr. Mark Wrona, Gretchen Preneta NPA and the staff at New England Cancer Specialist. The Gibson Pavilion floor at Maine Medical Center is where Joe formed friendships among the staff. The Gosnell Memorial Hospice House staff provided excellent support and care to Joe and his family during his final days. There are Guardian Angels amongst us and the staff at New England Cancer Specialist, Maine Medical Center and Gosnell Hospice House has such professionals who provide care and comfort to patients and families. A Celebration of Joe’s Life will be held Friday, February 16th, at 4PM at The Point (345 Clark’s Pond Parkway) in South Portland, Maine. In lieu of flower memorials, please consider a contribution to his daughter Ellie’s education fund at HTTPS://gofund.me/dfv24c68 search for Joseph Dahms To express condolences or to participate in Joe’s online tribute, please visit: www.dolbyblaissegee.com

Joseph Q. Dahms

December 12, 1982 - January 23, 2024

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